Athlete Disciples

NFL Linebacker Benton Whitley: “I Tried to Control Everything… Until God Broke Me Down

Episode Summary

What happens when an NFL player realizes he can’t control his career, his future, or God’s plan? In this episode of the Athlete Disciples Podcast, Christian Honer sits down with NFL linebacker Benton Whitley to talk about surrender, identity, adversity, and what it actually looks like to follow Jesus while competing at the highest level. Benton shares how he grew up around Christianity but eventually realized he was simply going through the motions. After entering the NFL as an undrafted player, injuries, getting cut, changing teams, free agency, uncertainty, and the pressure of professional football began teaching him something deeper: his identity could not be built on football. Benton opens up about reading the Bible consistently for two years, learning to bring his real thoughts and struggles to God, and discovering the freedom that comes when an athlete stops trying to control everything. Christian and Benton also study Proverbs 16:9: “We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.” They discuss: Competing with God vs. competing in your own strength Why success, money and recognition can become idols Benton’s journey from “going through the motions” to genuine faith Anxiety and pressure inside the NFL Injuries, being cut and trusting God through uncertainty Separating your identity from your sport Why following Christ isn’t about “cleaning yourself up” first Reading Scripture every day Surrendering your plans while still giving your absolute best Benton’s decision to get baptized Using athletics as a vehicle to glorify God Benton’s message to athletes is simple: you don’t have to fix yourself before coming to God. Come as you are and let Him transform you. If you’re an athlete wrestling with identity, pressure, performance, uncertainty, or surrender, this conversation is for you. Scripture: Proverbs 16:9 Guest: Benton Whitley Athlete Disciples Podcast